Very often, the right thing to do is to look for a clever choice of d, and then use convergence to say that you can for sure find an N so that |x_n-a|< d for n beyond N.
In any event, using convergence is exactly the opposite from proving convergence: You don't have to use an arbitrary d, and most of the time, it's important to make a particular, explicit choice of d.
...and end up getting what we want

Analysis WebNotes by John Lindsay Orr.
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